Bernard, a Ghanaian in his late 20s has shared with us how he managed to sleep with over 27 different beautiful women—without really spending a dime on any of these women.
It’s not the numbers that make his story particularly interesting but the fact that none of these women was able to tie him down with a relationship and somehow, he always manages to get things his way.
Bernard spends a lot of time at the gym, working out and building an appearance he says aids as a bait, in his fishing exploration of women.
“I usually rely on my physical appearance to impress some ladies who are into muscles and abs and stuff like that. Usually, ladies who demand such physical looks are easy to get laid,” Bernard said.
When it comes to Bernard, he starts as if he’s looking for a mere friendship but intending to get laid which works almost all the time. “I mostly ask for a friendship but some women know what they want and don’t really make it hard for you. They give you s*x on the first date.”
Bernard is self-employed; he owns a small printing company in Accra—he has also travelled to UAE in the past, where he worked a bit and gathered some money to set up his business. He’s not just a business man, he’s careful with money and does not give any of these women, who were more or less his s*x buddies, a dime.
In fact, he said that he rather receives a lot of gifts, including expensive gadgets such as latest mobile phones and laptops from some of the women he sleeps with.
When it comes to a relationship, Bernard has an interesting perspective and does not regard sleeping with multiple women around the same time cheating. “Well they call it cheating but I call it exploring,” he said.
On how he is able to easily ditch these women one after the other and hit on the next, he answered: “What the ladies mostly want is for me to be there for them every time and need attention, which because of my work I am unable to put up with. So in the process, some quickly realise it’s not working.”
And for “those who just want the pleasure that comes with it, I keep them around but I usually make excuses to avoid the extravagant and demanding ones.”
From Bernard’s experience with Ghanaian women, those who gave him s*x quicker were good in bed while the not so good ones wasted a bit of his time, before eventually opening their legs.
He explained it this way; “I’ve realized the ladies who were easy to get to into bed with me were good in bed and were always ready to go the extra mile to please me. But those who were reluctant to give in early were not good and mostly stayed the African way; no blowjobs whatsoever, just the boring missionary position,” he said.
If you are wondering what’s the sort of ages Bernard goes for as s*x buddies, we asked him that and he said, the oldest he slept with was in her 40s and the youngest was 17 years old.
It’s not just that the well-built young Ghanaian enjoys s*x from multiple women, he also has an obsession with collecting n*ked photos from these women and this is how he succeeds in getting as many as possible, from Ghanaians women, some before they meet—and some he never even meets them.
“I normally indulge in s*xual talks with them and pretend I am hard and need their pics to stare at and feel better because they aroused me. Bingo, it usually works and I have about 7 n*ked pics od different girls as at now. Some have been married recently,” he said.
Asked about his motivation, he said it’s more of a passion—that’s, it is a passion to explore as many women as possible, perhaps until he finds what he really wants.
Shocked that someone who has set off to explore a lot of women through sleeping with them is actually looking for a special woman, we asked about what he considers as his special qualities he wants.